When one is dumb enough to date another top, what the hell can one do when his partner is principally a) a top, b) inflexible and staid in the way he loves, c) seemingly incapable of letting go of control? I love O. I really do. But it's getting to me. I have made men who haven't had dicks in them in years cum with little effort... Why is Orpheus so difficult? Why can't he love me the way I've learned to love him?